今天我读了让我能够启发人生的一段文章，贴在这与大家分享：
1. 朋友您好 ， 為了你好
2. 請你坐好 ， 用心听好
3. 錢多錢少 ， 夠吃就好
4. 人丑人美 ， 順眼就好
5. 人老人少 ， 健康就好
6. 家穷家富 ， 和气就好
7. 老公晚归 ， 有回就好
8. 老婆嘮叨 ， 顾家就好
9. 孩子从小 ， 就要教好
10. 博士也好 ， 賣菜也好
11. 長大以后 ， 乖乖就好
12. 房屋大小 ， 能住就好
13. 名不名牌 ， 能穿就好
14. 兩輪四輪 ， 能駕就好
15. 老板不好 ， 要忍就好
16. 一切煩惱 ， 能解就好
17. 堅持執着 ， 放下最好
18. 人的一生 ， 平安就好
19. 不是有錢 ， 一定会好
20. 心好行好 ， 命能改好
21. 誰是誰非 ， 天知就好
22. 修福修慧 ， 來世更好
23. 說這麼多 ， 明白就好
24. 天地万物 ， 隨緣就好
25. 很多事情 ， 看開就好
26. 人人都好 ， 日日都好
27. 你好我好 ， 世界更好
28. 总而言之 ， 知足最好
29. 這条短信 ， 真的很好
30. 不发給你 ， 是我不好
31. 发了給你 ， 大家都好
32. 哈哈，你說我对你好不好
Sunday 18 October 2009
Saturday 26 September 2009
New Life Begin
I have again pack all my stuff and bags ready to leave my lovely home and going to land at a stranger place... Singapore. Yes.. that is a new place for me as I haven't been there before in my entire life.
After almost a year of our luck trying in the UK, enjoying all (But not all) the nice scenary in the nice place in UK, now I am going to explore another new place in Singapore, one of the advanced country in Asia. The feeling is not as excited as when i been to UK, I am not sure why... maybe because we knew that Singaporean working attitude is totally different from the European. I have to be very serious and putting all the energy and mind into the work so that i could be able to speed up with the working environment over here.
One week after my trip to Singapore, and now I have been to few interviews and they had offered me a job. I had chosen the same company as my darling was in as they had offer me a better salary than the other company. Besides, I also would want to focus on the consultancy firm rather than in the sub-contractor firm anymore. Will be starting my new job on the 5th Oct 2009...
A new life for me to start over again, a new target for me to aim for again... Wish me best of luck! :-)
After almost a year of our luck trying in the UK, enjoying all (But not all) the nice scenary in the nice place in UK, now I am going to explore another new place in Singapore, one of the advanced country in Asia. The feeling is not as excited as when i been to UK, I am not sure why... maybe because we knew that Singaporean working attitude is totally different from the European. I have to be very serious and putting all the energy and mind into the work so that i could be able to speed up with the working environment over here.
One week after my trip to Singapore, and now I have been to few interviews and they had offered me a job. I had chosen the same company as my darling was in as they had offer me a better salary than the other company. Besides, I also would want to focus on the consultancy firm rather than in the sub-contractor firm anymore. Will be starting my new job on the 5th Oct 2009...
A new life for me to start over again, a new target for me to aim for again... Wish me best of luck! :-)
Wednesday 2 September 2009
Tuesday 18 August 2009
Our Registration of Marriage
Registration Day 14.07.2009
This day is a memorable day of my entire life. Never expected to get register so soon actually, but with the approach of my dear about half year ago, we decided to get register first once we back from Uk to Malaysia.
Now, my status had become different from previous, I am no longer single in status. However, I always can't change of my mouth because I still will call him as my boy friend instead of husband. hahahaha..... It felt very funny to call him as husband in front of friends...
I feel like just wake up from a dream! I have registered now! I am people's wife now! Oh!!! Feeling like stepping into the other stage of life.... But I will sure make myself a happy "going to be bride"... Although we never plan of when will we get married "traditionally", but it seem like it soon to be one day. I want to be the most beautiful and the most happy bride (if the day really come)!! ^-^
Monday 15 June 2009
朋友
朋友永远都是扮演着我们生活其中的一个角色。
不同的朋友带来不同的生活乐趣，不同的人生经验。
让我们的生活添加着不同的色彩。
你伤心时，他们让你开心。
你跌倒时，他们伸出友谊的手把你扶起来。
你遇到困难时，他们愿意给些意见帮助你度过难关。
怎样才会拥有一个真心对待你的好朋友呢？
人生经验让我知道，我们要别人对我们好，最重要是我们要先对别人好，朋友也是一样，友谊永远不会无中生有，在友谊上要有点付出才会有收获，代价就是我们要以真诚的心对待他人，这样才会得到你的收获。
我今天能够拥有那么多朋友，真的很开心，也真的很谢谢他们扶助过我经历了不同的人生点点滴滴。
Saturday 30 May 2009
不要错放了幸福温暖的手
以下是我本人看了一篇很不错的文章，想与大家分享，充实人生对爱情的观念。。。
往往许多人在抉择伴侣时，容易东想西想，不知所措，就是害怕一时做错决定，看错人，造成终生的遗憾。
诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说；此时此刻在地球上，约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣，就看你先遇到哪一个，如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前，你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜，互相信赖的深层关系，那后者就会变成你的好朋友，但是若你跟眼前一个人没有培养出深层关系，感情就容易动摇，变心，直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情，才是幸福的开始，漂泊的结束。
爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要靠‘际遇’，是上天的安排，但是持续的爱一个人就要靠 ‘努力’，在爱情的经营中，顺畅运转的要素就是沟通，体谅，包容与自制(面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是因‘际遇’所迷惑与苦恼，意念不停，欲念不断，而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。
所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的 Mr. Right, 而是n问说在眼前的伴侣关系中，我能努力到什么程度，成长到什么程度，若没有培养出经营幸福的能力，就算真的 Mr. Right出现在你身边，幸福依然会错过的，而活在犹豫与遗憾当中，这不就是许多‘爱情虚无症’的遭遇与心态吗？
若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣，不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了，我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱，就是‘近亲生慢侮’也就是经济学中的铁律‘边际效益递减法则’，跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木与忽视，而新鲜的‘际遇’中是那么动人可爱。
在感情对待中，难免有摩擦与无心伤害，而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人，当然是跟我们在一起最多，最几及的人。而新欢呢，又还没开始有得罪你的机会再加上他刻意的讨好，所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱，旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。但别忘了，新换身上总是有不确定的未知数，旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感，确定感，信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的‘际遇’中迷失了自己，错放了幸福温暖的手。
所以萧伯纳的话，是要提醒人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一，应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上，同时也提醒我们‘弱水三千只取一瓢饮’若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣，就不要再三心二意了，因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个，所以要知道惜福，活在当下。
往往许多人在抉择伴侣时，容易东想西想，不知所措，就是害怕一时做错决定，看错人，造成终生的遗憾。
诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说；此时此刻在地球上，约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣，就看你先遇到哪一个，如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前，你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜，互相信赖的深层关系，那后者就会变成你的好朋友，但是若你跟眼前一个人没有培养出深层关系，感情就容易动摇，变心，直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情，才是幸福的开始，漂泊的结束。
爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要靠‘际遇’，是上天的安排，但是持续的爱一个人就要靠 ‘努力’，在爱情的经营中，顺畅运转的要素就是沟通，体谅，包容与自制(面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是因‘际遇’所迷惑与苦恼，意念不停，欲念不断，而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。
所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的 Mr. Right, 而是n问说在眼前的伴侣关系中，我能努力到什么程度，成长到什么程度，若没有培养出经营幸福的能力，就算真的 Mr. Right出现在你身边，幸福依然会错过的，而活在犹豫与遗憾当中，这不就是许多‘爱情虚无症’的遭遇与心态吗？
若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣，不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了，我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱，就是‘近亲生慢侮’也就是经济学中的铁律‘边际效益递减法则’，跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木与忽视，而新鲜的‘际遇’中是那么动人可爱。
在感情对待中，难免有摩擦与无心伤害，而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人，当然是跟我们在一起最多，最几及的人。而新欢呢，又还没开始有得罪你的机会再加上他刻意的讨好，所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱，旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。但别忘了，新换身上总是有不确定的未知数，旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感，确定感，信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的‘际遇’中迷失了自己，错放了幸福温暖的手。
所以萧伯纳的话，是要提醒人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一，应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上，同时也提醒我们‘弱水三千只取一瓢饮’若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣，就不要再三心二意了，因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个，所以要知道惜福，活在当下。
Saturday 2 May 2009
Farm Town + Pet Society
You all must be very curious why i write about the Farm Town and Pet Society of Facebook...
No doubt, these games will accompany me along my "non-working" days starting from next week. I am going to fully utilise the game and spend my time with them to earn more coins and score now!!! hahahaha... no choice... can't even get any part time QS job now... Wanted to work in restaurent, but after further thought, this will make me more tired when going back to work in the office. Just let see how will things turn out end of the month, if really no good sign of it, then Malaysia or Singapore is my next destination... Gambate!!!
No doubt, these games will accompany me along my "non-working" days starting from next week. I am going to fully utilise the game and spend my time with them to earn more coins and score now!!! hahahaha... no choice... can't even get any part time QS job now... Wanted to work in restaurent, but after further thought, this will make me more tired when going back to work in the office. Just let see how will things turn out end of the month, if really no good sign of it, then Malaysia or Singapore is my next destination... Gambate!!!
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